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I hate the term “single”. Every time I fill out some form or register on some website and they have a question about marital/relationship status, it really annoys me when I have to pick “single”. Every time someone describes me as “single” because I am not in a sexual and/or romantic relationship, this annoys me. “Single” has implications that just don’t apply to me.
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As an atheist, sometimes I worry about whether people will be offended when I blog about religion or atheism. Not all of my readers are atheists, after all, and I blog about various topics unrelated to atheism. I don’t want to drive away readers who come to my site to read what I say about asexuality, for example.

This worry is compounded by the fact that I have no idea how to anticipate what people will find offensive. How do I tell where the line is between what is appropriate, polite, and respectful, and what is inflammatory, disrespectful, and rude? Looking at what sort of things atheists say that religious people get offended at is absolutely no help here.
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I can never find the really good examples of stuff like straw man arguments when I’m looking for them. Since I’ve already spent so much time talking about straw man arguments and the rather aggravating habit of some Christians to try to tell atheists what atheism is, I’d feel like I really left something out if I didn’t post the gem I ran across today (via Atomic Mutant’s takedown).
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In my last post, I lamented how commonly I find Christians using straw man arguments against atheism (often involving redefining atheism in a different way than it is actually used by atheists) when I’m searcing the “atheism” and “atheist” tags on wordpress (usually because I want to find more atheist blogs). What my last post could have really used, though, is some concrete examples. I will attempt to correct that deficit with this post.

To start with, some stuff I found by googling “christian arguments against atheism”:
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Once again, I find myself poking through the “atheism” and “atheist” tags on wordpress to try to find more atheist blogs to read. Once again, a significant portion of the posts under these tags are written by Christians about atheists. And once again, a significant portion of these posts turn out to be straw man arguments against atheists.

The last time I did this, I ended up writing a very angry, ranty post about Christians telling atheists what atheism is, but I decided not to post it. I wrote it because I wanted to rant a bit, and because I wanted to reassure myself that I had good reason to be angry and upset. After I wrote it, I wasn’t sure if I wanted other people to read it in its raw, angry, ranty form. Here’s my attempt at a more calm, reasoned response to Christians telling atheists what atheism is.
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So, a few weeks ago, I posted about a book swap I was going to do with one of the people proselytizing on my campus–I would read a book of their choice, and they would read one of mine. I haven’t written about this in a while… because there’s not much to write about. I sent them an email at the address they gave me, and they haven’t emailed me back. I don’t know if they changed their mind, or if my email got sorted as spam, or what.

But I have put a lot of effort into trying to decide which book I ought to recommend, and I’m not going to consider that wasted effort, even if this book swap thing doesn’t happen. It’ll be good to have an idea of which books I would want to recommend to a theist, and which books I think make a good case for atheism. Here are some short reviews of the books I’ve read so far.
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I keep having lots of ideas for blogging lately, but they magically disappear as soon as I actually sit down at a keyboard, so I shall try rambling as a method for getting something written. For some reason I have been thinking about intersectionality, so I will write about that.

So. I am trans, and also ace, and also an atheist, and also have recurrent major depression. These things interact with each other.
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So, I was reading some atheist blogs earlier, and I stumbled across this article about sex ed which explicitly, if briefly, addresses asexuality in the context of sex ed. After my initial “visibility! yay!” reaction to coming across a completely unexpected mention of asexuality, I started poking around for more stuff on asexuality in the atheosphere, and I found a few links worth sharing.

Jason Thibeault’s Asexual Awareness Week post

Astrid Lydia Johannsen’s Asexual Awareness Week post

A two part series on myths and misconceptions about asexuals on Queereka (part 1, part 2). Less recent than the other links, but good stuff.

Trigger Warning: Cissexism

I was planning to write more about atheism today, but then I came across this.
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Today, I was walking by a table set up by a Christian student group, and noticed their sign advertising free candy if you take their survey. Free candy! On Halloween, no less. Well, I’ve been thinking, for the past year or so, every time I walk by a table like this, that maybe I should try talking to them. So, after I finished eating lunch, I walked back by their table and asked them about their candy, I mean, survey.

It was a pretty open ended survey with verbal questions and answers. It didn’t take long for them to figure out I’m an atheist. They asked me questions like how I became an atheist and why I don’t believe in their god. It was hard for me to pin down one thing to answer questions like this. There are just so many things. So I told them that, and I tried to give them a vague overview of why I don’t believe in any gods. The main thing I said was that, several years back, when I started thinking for myself more and asking questions, I started looking for a better reason to believe than “Mommy and Daddy said so”, but I never did find one. Instead, I found reasons not to believe.

After a little while of talking, they asked me if I would read a book they gave me. I was all set to refuse and walk off into the sunset when the “of course, I’ll also read a book you want me to” bit came out. That was a rather pleasant surprise, and, sadly, there’s no “of course” about it. It’s nice to see a proselytizer who actually understands the sort of reciprocity necessary to having a real discussion (my Dear Christian letter was a response to having run into a lack of such reciprocity too many times).

They ended up giving me their email. Neither of us has firmly decided what book the other shall read, yet, although they said they were thinking of having me read “I Don’t Have Enough Faith to Be an Atheist“, unless there was some particular specific reason for why I don’t believe in their god, in which case they might have a different suggestion. I can already tell from the title that I have major disagreements with the premise of the book, and that it probably uses weird definitions of “faith” and/or “atheist”. Still, it will be interesting to see what a Christian finds to be a convincing argument against atheism.

I, on the other hand, really have no idea what book I am going to have them read. And that is where you, dear reader(s), come in. I’d really like some suggestions of what to recommend! I have a few thoughts myself, but I’m nowhere near settled on anything. I’m hesitant to recommend anything that I haven’t read myself, but I also want to pick the best, most convincing book I can find. There’s always “The God Delusion” by Richard Dawkins, but I don’t know if I want to recommend anything of Dawkins right now, and I’m not sure I’d be confident calling that the best I can find, anyway. I’m in the middle of reading one of Victor J Stenger’s books at the moment, and I’m thinking of suggesting his “God:The Failed Hypothesis“, except that I haven’t actually read that one yet. I was poking through my public library’s online catalog a bit for atheist books, and I’ve put Stenger’s book on hold, as well as PZ Myers new book, “The Happy Atheist“.

Another book I thought of was “50 Reasons People Give for Believing in a God“, but if their reasons for believing aren’t among the 50 discussed in the book, it’s not exactly going to be very convincing. Another idea is that, perhaps, I should recommend a book that focuses more on talking about what atheists are like (e.g. how atheists can live ethical, happy lives) and less on putting forwards arguments against the existence of any gods. It depends on what I want to accomplish with this. If the title of the book they recommended to me is any indication, though, they may have a lot of misconceptions about atheists.

To take a completely different track, I could also recommend Abul A’la Maududi’s “Towards Understanding Islam“. I blogged a bit about my response to reading this book here. At the time, I was looking for books that explain what Islam is all about, what the main beliefs/practices/etc. are, and what sort of divides there are in Islam (e.g. Shi’a, Sunni). Well, this book did explain some of these things, but it was also a very persuasive bit of writing. It was a difficult, highly thought provoking book to read. It was a short book, but I spent quite a lot of time on it. I’d need to take breaks every now and again, because it was not even remotely light reading. A lot of the arguments in it were very emotional in nature, e.g. talking about how the unbeliever is willful/foolish/malicious/will go to Hell (keep in mind I’m talking about a book I read over a year ago, here–I’m not going to remember things precisely). Describing an outgroup as being bad/stupid/foolish/deluded can certainly be a very effective emotional argument, though it is not a logical argument at all.

In any case, there are a few reasons that recommending this book on Islam crossed my mind. For one thing, it might make them rethink some of the arguments they use or hear about Christianity, if they see the same sorts of arguments being used for Islam. For another, one of the most convincing arguments for atheism that I can think of, is the number and variety of religions in the world, many of which claim very similar things (prophets, miracles, god(s) interacting with the physical world, spiritual experiences, etc.), and none of which have notably better arguments/evidence than the others. Many arguments that can be used to support one religion (e.g. “my god does miracles” or “the universe was clearly intelligently designed”), apply equally as well (or equally as badly) to others. Which is to say, the argument about whether or not any gods exist is completely reframed once you take into account the many different religions/gods of the world.

So, yea. Thoughts? Suggestions? What sort of book should I recommend? What specific book(s) would you recommend?

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